I’m having a hard time dealing with the holidays. I have hope since I’m having surgery to January for my adno and endo but right now everyday I’m in misery... either pain or gi issues. Both of our families live hours away so it’s stresing me out about traveling and feeling awful! It’s so hard because I usually love the holidays and feel this year so down. Do I try to suck it up or just tell our families we are staying home? It’s so hard I don’t want to disappoint anyone :(