I'm so sorry you have to deal with anyone like this in your life. It should go without saying, but I'll say it anyway - you are an important person worthy of love and happiness and your value is not equal to or dependent on your ability or willingness to have children. What i wish your husband would do, is work on helping them understand this and drawing lines with his parents. If they are incapable of realizing this, then i don't think they have earned trust for any information regarding your personal health or fertility.

So tough when you’ve got in-laws like that. I definitely think it’s your decision on whether or not they should know and I hope your husband can respect that, as well as stand up to his parents if they’re being disrespectful towards you.

Now a days, people assume a woman is supposed to grow to be a 'parent' and have a career and whatnot. New outlook! That's not the case with everyone. We need to teach the WORLD about our illness in a way that reaches ears effectively and promptly. Your life is your lane! You choose what's reasonable to your body and soul.💪🏾

Hi, Squirrelgirl, I completely agree with Kachoo... you have a choice to inform people if you want to or not. You are Worthy or Love and Respect. All of the best for the operation.💗