Hi Paris! I would say my story its similar than yours and I would recommend you do some treatments for nerve damage prior to surgery, otherwise your recovery its going to feel like hell. I went through that for a year and Im finally getting better after treating my nerves. Ive tried accupunture and it does help, but not effective as other type of treatments. Im getting treated here:https://www.pelvicrehabilitation.com/
It's amazing and it works. Best of lucks.