I'm 34, with 4 laps under my belt. Stage 4 endo, andenomyosis, and I have one ovary left. We've been trying to conceive since September of 2016, met with a fertility doctor in February of 2017, had another lap to clean things up again, aaaaand, have been ttc since then with no luck yet. BUT, my doctor seems to think it's possible. In January, we are going to try IVF, but still keeping our fingers crossed that it happens naturally.
Don't give up hope. I've read that it can take anywhere between 6 months to a year, for a productively sound couple to conceive.
Yes, emotionally, it is a lot, I agree with you, but if your open to it, go ahead and see a fertility doctor. Sometimes it can give a little comfort.