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I have a question. I have been afraid to try for kids because I know endo can mess with fertility and I am afraid of how I would perform as a mother during endo flares. I know that during pregnancy endo goes away, I am more concerned for when it comes back afterwards. Do others have this fear? How have you been able to push past it?

November 4, 2025
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Hey! Take a look at my most recent post. I had 2 healthy baby boys since my diagnosis in 2017. I had to completely change my lifestyle in order to become fertile again. I had trouble for a while back in 2019 when I was trying to have another baby. It wasn't easy by a long shot, but by the grace of God, He healed my womb and I was able to have 2 more healthy deliveries. The road to recovery is possible!

November 4, 2025
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How can you overcome the fear of trying for a baby with endometriosis, given fertility concerns and worries about managing motherhood during flares?

Your fears are completely valid and shared by many in the endometriosis community. Fear about fertility outcomes and managing life with endo can add to your pain and stress Show Full Answer

How can you overcome the fear of trying for a baby with endometriosis, given fertility concerns and worries about managing motherhood during flares?

Your fears are completely valid and shared by many in the endometriosis community. Fear about fertility outcomes and managing life with endo can add to your pain and stress, but understanding the reality can help ease some anxiety.

Here are some encouraging facts about fertility and endometriosis:

* Around 70 percent of women with mild to moderate endometriosis can become pregnant without treatment
* Women with severe endometriosis still have excellent chances with the right support
* Overall, about 75 percent of women with endometriosis can achieve pregnancy
* Laparoscopic surgery to remove lesions can significantly improve fertility rates

Many MyEndometriosisTeam members have shared similar fears and eventual success stories, with some trying for years before conceiving their "miracle babies." Working with both your doctor and a fertility specialist is crucial. They can help you develop a treatment plan that balances pain management with fertility preservation. Some hormonal treatments can prevent pregnancy, so timing is important if you're planning to conceive.

Replace fear-based thinking with manageable steps:

* One MyEndometriosisTeam member realized that fears about having endometriosis were actually adding to their pain
* Allow yourself to acknowledge the fear, but don't let "what if" questions control your decisions
* Take it one day at a time rather than worrying about an unknown future
* Stay positive and remember that endometriosis doesn't define you

The community's advice: stay strong, be a persistent advocate for your reproductive health, and don't give up if having children is important to you.

November 4, 2025

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